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What women want [01 Mar 2009|11:04pm]


According to an article in the Sunday Times magazine 'what women want is a real dilemma... women want to be thrown up against a wall but not truly endangered.  Women want a caveman and caring.'

What's your experiences?

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It's been a while kids... [12 Feb 2007|09:37am]

[ mood | curious ]

Just a quicky (steady):

What do you do to ease the boredom when you're not getting any?
Also, what do you do in order to get some more, do you...
a) Casually sleep with anyone who takes your fancy?
b) Start up a relationship with anybody who's willing to go out with you?
c) Bide your time until you meet somebody you could potentially fall in love with?
I would also like to know the hows and whys of your answers.

Thank you very much for your time, as always, it's been a pleasure.

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Interesting Story [19 Jan 2007|07:21pm]
Violent Acres describes a situation in high school about a geek coming on to her and doing everything wrong. There's some interesting psychology behind her actions. Check it out, if just for what not to do.
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Friendly or Flirting? [14 Oct 2006|11:04pm]
Men apparently have a documented tendency to misinterpret friendliness in a woman as flirting or to exaggerate the sexuality of the flirting they encounter.

What are some good reliable indicators that a woman is flirting, rather than just being friendly? I believe the pickup community calls them IOIs. What are some of the most reliable IOIs?

I'd particularly like to hear from women, though. What do you do to signal flirtation or interest? How can a man reliably differentiate flirting from friendliness?
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[09 Oct 2006|12:36pm]

I need your help.

I'm gonna give this guy my number we've been giving each other the eye for a few months now but one of has to make a move so I figure it may as well be me.

But I need a good neg for when I give him my number as I don't want to just hand it over ya know?

Please help
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Most important aspects for seduction [04 Sep 2006|01:10pm]

Firstly hell-mlo All! A great community dedicated to what I love most :D.

Anyways I was wondering what ppl thought were the most important aspects/tools to a seduction? For me it's eye contact physical proximity and conversation. Though I think eye contact is one of the most important to tie it all together 'cause if you don't have the right amount and style of gaze then the others can just fall flat what do ppls think?

But then there is also the lips, if seducing a guy wet lips, tongue and mouth suggestions and finger and mouth suggestions work extremely well.... much pondering I suppose it depends on your audience... hmmm

Huggs! (to those who want them)

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Just a quicky... [25 Jul 2006|10:11pm]

[ mood | busy ]

Seduction School on at 9pm on 4 on Thursday 3rd of August. The fact it's on 4 may mean it's all rubbish, but hey, don't shoot the messenger ;)

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So yeah, the other day... [24 Jul 2006|10:53am]

I walk into a cafe/bar near the bedlam theatre in Edinburgh to see a friend of mine who's playing drums in some kind of weird acoustic hippie band. I spot the cutest two girls sitting with some random guy. I pulled up a chair next to them, asked if they minded. They said no, smiling shyly. The guy looked uncomfortable. I turned the chair around and sat with my back to them, watching my friend bang away on the drums like a french sex addict on a disabled nympho hooker.

He was in all fairness, good at what he did, so I sat for a while watching, chilling. Some random guy walked up and started chatting to me - I'd met him earlier in the evening, a genuinely fascinating character. An ex smackhead, he'd kicked the habit but was totally wired on some fucked up new legal shit called BZP, marketed as enjoi pills. Come to think of it, so was I.

It was all good though. The more this guy clamoured for my attention, the more my stock rose in the eyes of the chicks. They weren't saying anything, but the studied silences and the occasional subdued whisper and giggle said it all. I didn't hear what they said. I didn't have to. It was on.

The best way to open a conversation with a group of girls is to peak their curiosity, then give them a chance to open you. It's by no means the only way, but it is fucking smooth.

I turned around, and deliberately laid, on the table between the two girls, my rolling tobacco, skins and filters. I then looked up, as if noticing these two stunning ladies for the first time. I paused, held their eye contact briefly, then motioned to the tobacco.

"Do you mind if I roll?"

They jumped over each other to reassure me it was fine.

A lot of what it takes to successfully attract a woman is simply to come across as congruent and solid. You can be sweet, cocky, charming, aloof, whatever - it will fail unless you are genuinely sweet, genuinely cocky, genuinely charming, genuinely aloof, genuinely whatever. Lines are great, but they're only a spice. To become a truly attractive man you need to be good at expressing, at communication. But you have to have something to communicate. You need a sense of self. If a woman is considering you as a potential fuck, she'll test you, she'll throw shit at you. This isn't because she's a bitch, it's because she has to know you aren't fake. It's that simple. It's not even exclusively a woman thing. It's a human thing. We test people we don't know if they want us to trust them.

Small talk is a seducer's lethal weapon. If you can make small talk while sounding interesting and funny, you come across as normal. And women love to talk. Once in small talk, you can work in double entendres, cocky lines, compliments etc.. in the context of a normal conversation. Keep it light. Keep it funny if you can, but don't be afraid of serious. The most important thing is to keep the conversation moving, and keep breaking down the physical barriers that exist between you.

After about 15 minutes of chat I tell the girls off for distracting me and step away for a cigarette. I shake the guy's hand - he looks relieved. One of the girls is his girlfriend. The other girl, an extremely pretty south korean chick with a lovely body and an adorable smile gets up and invites herself along.

We're sitting outside, talking shit. I tell her she's lovely (which is true). She tells me I'm hot (which is true). I lean in and kiss her. No tongues, not yet.

I turn back to my cigarette and continue the conversation as if nothing has happened. She starts getting twitchy. I can tell she's going into girly meltdown. Next time I look over at her she leans forward and slides her tongue into my mouth. I kiss her, hard and well. I break the kiss first.

The perfect skin of her forehead creases for a fraction of a second in thought, then she looks at me.

"You're exactly what I need right now," she says.

"Cool." I say. It is cool.

After a few minutes, a friend of mine comes out, then another, then another. I get into a chat with them, all the time with my arm around the girl's waist. She shifts position, almost imperceptibly. I know where this is going. I pre-empt.

"You should go back inside, your friends will be wondering where you've been." I say.

"Yeah, yeah that's a good idea. I was just thinking that." She says. As she gets up, I don't lean in for a kiss. All I do is just for the slightest moment, hook my fingers on to hers. She looks around as she walks into the building. She smiles. She trips a little on the step.


After a while I go back to the table where they're sitting. For some reason, the guy is in a mood, although he's perfectly friendly with me. I chat for a while. He is useful - providing a petulant, sulky contrast to my cheery, flirtatious banter.

After a while, the guy decides to go. He walks off. His girlfriend stands to leave. So does the Korean girl. I stand too. I turn to the korean chick:

"where you going now?" I ask.
"Your place?" She comes back with a devilish grin.
"Cool." I reply. It is cool.

So yeah, not an unsuccessful evening. Lovely girl. It turns out she's got herself invited to one of the big showbiz parties that Edinburgh's playing host to for the fringe. Apparently this one's for Dylan Moran and Bill Bailey. She invited me along. It's in a couple of weeks. Love it.

But that's not the best thing about the whole night. The best thing was something she said to me that no other woman has ever said to me. I think a year ago if I'd heard this from a girl I'd have probably just thought it was quite nice.

Now I've got a little more of a sense of what makes women tick, I think this is monumental.

It was after we'd done all that crazy bedroom stuff on my four poster (yes, you heard me) bed, and we were sitting in my living room smoking a joint with my flatmates and a few of their friends. Seven guys, including myself, all stoned and chatting. Really cool guys. She was curled up beside me like a South Korean kitten, her head on my shoulder. She looked up at me and whispered in my ear...

"I'm happy to be your pretty face."

Wow. Just wow.

What a girl.
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[23 Mar 2006|11:41am]

Very funny AFC experiment
Nice Guys finish last
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Seduction wiki [19 Mar 2006|05:39pm]

FastSeduction 101 Wiki
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Neil Strauss / Style on The Hollywood Podcast [19 Jan 2006|09:27am]

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[16 Jan 2006|03:35pm]

It's a game of... the game
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Community changes [16 Jan 2006|10:33am]

This morning I've done some re-jigging to the community. After some deliberation I've decided it's all good stuff but not a very useful PU resource as 98% of posts are off-topic.

All things sex & relationship wise should now be posted to s3duced.

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Sex or Seduction? [15 Jan 2006|05:39pm]

Seems to me that this community is more about sex/love/relationships and so on rather than about PU/seduction. Do you folks agree?

There's no judgment here, just trying to understand the theme.

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[13 Jan 2006|01:13pm]

[ mood | curious ]

Poll #651450 Arousal babeh!

Which turns you on more?

Porn flick
Erotic literature

Feel free to elaborate :)
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[11 Dec 2005|04:39pm]

[ mood | horny ]

Was thinking about this the other day and then when reading back through other s3duction posts I came across this and this.

To the single people: What aspects do you miss most about being in a relationship?

To those in a relationship: What aspects do you miss about being single?

I was recently thinking about how, sadly so often it seems that for one to be happy they should be in a relationship, our focus appears to be the need to find a man/woman in order to be content. How true do you think this is?

(This is all a generalisation, I want to hear everyones different sides!)

Excluding other external factors how much of your own  happiness is determined by whether you are seeing someone or not? Why does it play such a big part? Are you happier free and single? Why? What do you think makes us feel that way?

It would be good to hear from both the single and..err... double among you, I'm interested in what you have to say :)



This is in fact not an attempt to catch anyone out but actually just what it says. :p

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Let the healing commence [23 Nov 2005|12:43pm]

Ok. People of s3duction. My question to you is this.

When it comes to dating, relationships and, well, shagging; what scares you the most?
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New Member Of The Community [13 Oct 2005|09:03am]

[ mood | calm ]

Firstly I just have to say what a great community this is! Thankyou randy angel for introducing me! I would like to open a can of worms by asking the question, have any of you ever broken up a relationship? By that I mean that you liked someone who was already in a relationship and ended up 'stealing' the person away. What moral dilemmas did this pose for you (if any), and how do you justify your actions? I have no experience of this myself, I am just curious!

Go nuts.

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Do cheaters ever prosper [12 Oct 2005|10:34am]

Why is it, that a guy can be so in love with a girl and still cheat on her?

This question is fuelled by the fact that an ex(ish) of mine has apparently found the love of his life.
Yet, approx. 1.3 days after she boarded that train to uni, he was in bed with someone else?
Maybe he's scum, but he's not the only one.

So boys, whats the appealing thing about cheating?
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